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Discriminatory Policies Deny Forever Homes to Thousands of Foster Children Awaiting Adoption

Qualified LGBT Families Are Ready to Provide Loving, Permanent Homes, But Are Barred From Doing So

Washington, DC, June 13, 2012 — A new report released today highlights how archaic and discriminatory laws are making it harder to find adoptive families for 107,000 children in foster care who are awaiting adoption. In a majority of states, children may be denied forever homes by qualified and loving parents simply because the parents who want to provide that home are lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender (LGBT).

Finding Children Forever Homes: LGBT Foster and Adoptive Families, was co-authored by the Movement Advancement Project, the Family Equality Council and the Center for American Progress in partnership with the American Civil Liberties Union and the Human Rights Campaign. The report shows that as of 2010, there were more than 408,000 children in foster care and 107,000 of these were awaiting adoption. Of the 107,000 children waiting to be adopted, 60% had been waiting more than two years while 16% had been waiting more than five years for permanent “forever” homes.

“It’s not in the best interest of the 107,000 children in foster care waiting for a permanent home to be denied placements with qualified families for any reason,” said Jennifer Chrisler, Family Equality Council Executive Director. “No child should be denied the love, care and stability that comes with a forever home simply because of bias against parents who are LGBT.”

“Despite being qualified, willing and ready to foster and adopt children, LGBT parents are often barred from doing so by outdated and discriminatory laws, policies or practices,” said Chad Griffin, Human Rights Campaign President. “Federal and state-level policymakers should take immediate steps to remove barriers faced by LGBT foster and adoptive parents, including passing laws that provide explicit nondiscrimination protections.”

“Americans know that LGBT parents are providing loving, stable homes for children,” said Jeff Krehely, Vice President of LGBT Research and Communications at the Center for American Progress. “The majority of Americans support allowing LGBT-headed households to foster and adopt, and it’s time for our laws to reflect that support.”

Finding Children Forever Homes: LGBT Foster and Adoptive Families includes targeted recommendations designed to ensure that LGBT families can help fill the need for loving, stable foster and adoptive homes for children. It is based on content from All Children Matter: How Legal and Social Inequalities Hurt LGBT Families, a report which provides one of the most comprehensive portraits to date of the wide range of obstacles facing LGBT families in America. It also offers detailed recommendations for eliminating or reducing inequities and improving the lives of children with LGBT parents. For more information, visit, or

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